First, pick something about school that irritates you. Then pretend that you are talking to a person who is associated with this irritation. In the following space, write down what you would say to this person as a "you' message.
Do you know the group that you are in. Is always talking about things that you should be talking about when you are at home. Because it's irritating to come to class everyday and having a hard time trying to concentrate when you have a group of people talking about their personal lives.
Now write the same complaint as "I" message, include of least the first three elements suggested in " Five Ways to Say "I" on page 250.
- Yesterday conversation was a little too loud.
- I was having a hard time concentrating.
- Is their anyway the group can exchange numbers and talk during the lunch hour or after school.
- I'd would have a better chances understanding my quiz if i could concentrate on the question when i able to read it.
- I intend to find me a sit in a more quiet area. And maybe focus more the assignment instead of their conversation.